1. "Unrealistic expectations" is subjective...But seriously, GODLY people, keep looking for your Ruth and Boaz. If it's God's will, you will find the one for you.
2. I agree.
3. I agree. Pastors: Create church groups for adult singles!
4. Women shouldn't make the first move, but should give off an "I'm interested in you" vibe: smiling and glancing back at the guy. Then the guy should approach. and introduce himself....
5. DATING SHOULD FEEL HEAVY. Christian dating isn't really dating, in the worldly sense. It should be always purposeful and intentional. Godly people don't date for hookups, or as if it's some kind of game. The purpose of CHRISTIAN dating is to see if one is meant for the other in marriage, otherwise no point in dating. Dating isn't some fun and frivolous matter. It's serious.